Why do men cheat? Read on

A man may have a wife, kids, car, apartment and a great job and yet have a little communication with his spouse. So they may cheat on their spouse as they might feel neglected because of his wife’s divided attention between the household chores and their children. Here are some of the reasons listed below that why men look out of their nest and cheat their partner.

Men no longer fell satisfied and stimulated with their current relationship and are too scared to end it.

Men may have got bored in their current relationship and carve for initial excitement and illicitness of a secret affair.

Intimacy quotient between the partners is very significant. Lack of sexual chemistry between them leads to infidelity, casual affairs on part of men. The spouse may be not interested in doing the sexual things the men want to try out. They may be either afraid of or morally against such kinks. Also, the woman‘s sex drive isn’t what it was when he got married to her. Many guys think that having sex with more than one woman is an ego boost for them.

Men stray out of long term relationships to remember what it was like to be free and desirable. It may be possible that their need to feel desired is somehow not been able to fulfill by their spouse.

They even stray just to enjoy the feeling of being in a free commitment relationship with no strings attached for the sake of gaining double enjoyment and nothing else.

Also, lack of communication with the spouse or girlfriend can lead a man to cheat. May be his partner is a working woman, or in her pregnancy stage or may be children rearing and household chores takes much of her time, leaving little or no personal time to share with her partner.


  • Mel

    My partner has been trawling the internet for various personals things like Flirtline and various yahoo chat rooms. I know this because for the last few months his mobile phone has been either been on silent, or receiving texts some in the early hours. He is a very secretive person and many of his friends do not know each other. I did something bad and went though his phone after having asked him severals times what was going on. He spends hours most nights onthe internet but I am not allowed to see what he is doing, or looking at. I have to spend most evenings alone watching TV. I have asked whether he is looking for someone to replace me – he says no.
    So after getting a couple of phone no’s from his phone, I went on the internet and started searching for evidence of what he’d been doing. He set up a Facebook account using a flase name and had 30 women as friends -women he didn’t know and was wanting to spend his time talking to and exchanging photo’s. I set up a false account and used one of his women friends photos asking who this woman was (as he seem to speak often to this particular woman). He eventually found out and went balistic at me. Told me to remove her photo and that I’d been reported for doing this. He was also violent to me.
    I also had his email account hacked, and now have access to his email – without him knowing. I have since found that he has been using Yahoo personals (adult and otherwise) as well as Flirtline, tagged and something called Wanna Chat. All of which he has been trawling and contacting various women over the last year.
    But the strange thing is that we live in Italy, however all the sites he has been using are for the UK – so he is not looking to date but I think just get a kick out of using these sites.
    I find it hard to walk from this relationship as I’ve been with him for 8 years. We left the UK 3 years ago to live in Italy. I’m divorced so I left my daughter with her father as she did not want to come to Italy Iand was starting her GCSE’s. I sold my house to make a fresh start with this man. So alll my financial investments are now tied with this man.
    Can someone please advise me how I can stop this strange habit my partner has. I can’t talk to him, as he will deny he has the problem and will say I am invading his privacy to have found out what was going on.

  • Forzest

    Cheating husbands/ boyfriends have always existed. Though there is no excuse to stray out of a relationship, some of the reasons why men tend to look for love outside their relationship could be lust, revenge, lack of combination or lack of moral