He is charming, sweet, caring and so good looking that your friends and even you swoon each time he enters the room. While short term flings with a good looking guy is fine but how do you know if the man is the one you have been waiting for all your life? Most married couples will come up with an answer like “We looked at each other and just knew it.” Unfortunately this does not work out in all cases. Sometimes you may be with a loving person but be completely unaware of the fact that he is the one you have dreamed of all your life.

He makes you smile and the time of the day that you spend with him is the best. A person with a strong sense of humor and a love for life is a joy to be with. Your relationship needs to be natural and the chemistry should be there. You do not have to pretend to be some one else in front of him. If you feel you are pushing yourself to sustain a relationship with a man or if he wants you to change for him then it is definitely not the right one for you. The man who is the one for you should have your trust and should enrich your life.

How your partner treats you now is an important measure of how your relationship will be in future. Is he bothered about meeting your needs? Does he listen to you and care about the things that you are saying? How does he behave with your friends, family members and outsiders? These are the questions you need to answer when choosing your life partner

If you think that the man is the one for you then your goals and aspirations should take you in the same direction. However this does not mean that you will go through life without making any compromises. Discuss the important things in life like marriage, kids, money etc. If you believe that the guy is on the same page as you are regarding these things then you are ready to take the next all important step.

At the end of the day, it is important to remember that no one is perfect and even your seemingly all perfect guy will have his flaws but if you can love him despite this then you know that he is the one.