Insecurity in Marriage
August 26, 2008
One must have witnessed a growing number in cases of marital discord and differences amongst partners. Most of these common marital problems stem up or are fuelled by a feeling of insecurity in marriagewhich is slowly eating up the once considered holy and sacred bond of marriage. This holy bond is slowly turning into bondage for partners and the prime reason for this is insecurity which is driving out trust and faith from a relationship. When one enters into a new relationship, doubts and fears rise in almost every person’s life but those doubts need to be rectified soon so that they do not turn into harmful insecurities. Insecurities in a relationship can stem up from various reasons like feeling neglected by your partner, lack of quality time spent between you and even due to the influence of various gossips of the society. However, one needs to be rational and sensible enough as marriage is a holy bond which should not be broken due to trifle reasons.
It has been found that in majority of the cases of insecurity in marriages, the reasons for insecurity never have a strong foundation. That is to say, people with insecurities generally suffer from extreme emotions of jealousy or low self-esteem which in turn eats up their thinking power thereby influencing them into negative thinking. Instead of getting tensed and insecure, one should directly talk to one’s partner and get things cleared off so that small problems do not turn into mountains of marital discord. Many a times, people get so engrossed in their professional life that they tend to neglect their personal life. This is one of the main reasons for growing insecurities and the only way of sorting this problem is by taking out some exclusive quality time which can be used to spend some memorable time with your partner. Along with dispelling shadows of insecurities, this helps in strengthening the bond of love and faith in marriage. Insecurity is a process of self annihilation and one should prevent this feeling through the belief and confidence in one’s love and partner. One needs to stay away from this bug as it can eat up a healthy marital relationship by putting it under the shadows of doubt and disbelief.




























