Undoubtedly sex is an important ingredient of your marital life. Certainly, a person’s sex life is directly affected by his or her outlook, health status, cultural background, likings etc. so, there’s no point feeling shy for discussing sex related issues by visiting a sex counselor.
You can gather information and ideas relating to the topics like health status, fertility status from your doctor without any sense of embarrassment. Make sure you do get cleared from all the myths and misconceptions relating to sex from the counselor too.
Make sure you acknowledge and educate yourself with different facts relating to sexuality before hitting your bed for a first night sex session. Issues can be relating to contraceptives, hymen bleeding, ways of controlling anxiety etc.
Remember that nobody is perfect in field ofsex performance. Women may suffer from anxieties like pain while penis penetration, excessive bleeding and even finds it diffident to talk to their partners regarding the same. But trust me, this won’t help anyone. So be communicative and talk to your partner, this will build a stronger bond between you two.
It may be possible that men may suffer from problems of premature ejaculation due to anxiety. Just keep in mind that you don’t think of doing everything on the first night itself. Just explore the things gradually or little by little.
Sexual satisfaction is only possible when both the partners reach orgasm at least once in their sex session. You can achieve this only when you know the different ways to arouse your partner, so talk about this. You can even read out some books regarding the same too. Try to become little more playful and enjoy sex in different positions.