Comments on: How to Deal with Abusive Relationships http://www.ayushveda.com/womens-magazine/how-to-deal-with-abusive-relationships/ Magazine for Women covering Fashion, Pregnancy, Health, Diet, Life, Career, Relationships and more Fri, 20 Nov 2009 14:28:38 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Michelle DeLarwelle http://www.ayushveda.com/womens-magazine/how-to-deal-with-abusive-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-533 Michelle DeLarwelle Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:11:13 +0000 http://www.ayushveda.com/womens-magazine/?p=6139#comment-533 Monice, I can COMPLETELY relate to your experience. I am in the process of ending my relationship. I finally reached my breaking point after 10 years. My boyfriend is trying to make me feel guilty for ending the relationship saying I am taking everything away from him. I responded by telling him that I am not TAKING anything from him but that he THREW it away. Dont let your fiance guilt you into feeling like it is your fault because it isnt. He made this choice and I can tell you, no matter how many times he says sorry it will NEVER get better it will only get worse. Be strong, reach out & hold tight to GOD and keep your friends close. Dont let him control how you handle this situation & most important, YES do this for the kids & in the long run, it will help you more then you will ever know. We are all afraid of being alone. But we dont have to be. We have family, friends, church & other women who have been through it. You will NEVER truely be alone. The Devil just wants you to think you are. Keep your head up & keep it clear. You will do what you need to. Most importantly, be safe. God Bless Monice, I can COMPLETELY relate to your experience. I am in the process of ending my relationship. I finally reached my breaking point after 10 years. My boyfriend is trying to make me feel guilty for ending the relationship saying I am taking everything away from him. I responded by telling him that I am not TAKING anything from him but that he THREW it away. Dont let your fiance guilt you into feeling like it is your fault because it isnt. He made this choice and I can tell you, no matter how many times he says sorry it will NEVER get better it will only get worse. Be strong, reach out & hold tight to GOD and keep your friends close. Dont let him control how you handle this situation & most important, YES do this for the kids & in the long run, it will help you more then you will ever know. We are all afraid of being alone. But we dont have to be. We have family, friends, church & other women who have been through it. You will NEVER truely be alone. The Devil just wants you to think you are.

Keep your head up & keep it clear. You will do what you need to. Most importantly, be safe.

God Bless

]]> By: MONICE http://www.ayushveda.com/womens-magazine/how-to-deal-with-abusive-relationships/comment-page-1/#comment-305 MONICE Fri, 26 Jun 2009 17:23:40 +0000 http://www.ayushveda.com/womens-magazine/?p=6139#comment-305 ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS HAVE HAD 2 SONS ONES 1 1/2 AND THE YOUNGER ONE IS 7 MONTHS OLD. I AM ALSO 2 MONTHS PREGNANT RIGHT NOW WITH HIS 3 BABY. (I HAVE A DAUGHTER THAT IS ALMOST 3). BUT ABOUT 3 MONTHS AGO HE STARTED HITTING ME AND I ALMOST LOST THIS BABY A WEEK AGO......BUT THERES ALWAYS VERBAL MENTAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE. BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT IT HURTS MY HEART AND HE ALWAYS SAYS HE'S SORRY BUT HE KEEPS DOING IT......I WANT TO LEAVE BUT IM SCARED...AND I DONT WANT TO BE ALONE BUT I WANT TO DO IT FOR MY KIDS. ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS HAVE HAD 2 SONS ONES 1 1/2 AND THE YOUNGER ONE IS 7 MONTHS OLD. I AM ALSO 2 MONTHS PREGNANT RIGHT NOW WITH HIS 3 BABY. (I HAVE A DAUGHTER THAT IS ALMOST 3). BUT ABOUT 3 MONTHS AGO HE STARTED HITTING ME AND I ALMOST LOST THIS BABY A WEEK AGO……BUT THERES ALWAYS VERBAL MENTAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE. BUT I LOVE HIM SO MUCH BUT IT HURTS MY HEART AND HE ALWAYS SAYS HE’S SORRY BUT HE KEEPS DOING IT……I WANT TO LEAVE BUT IM SCARED…AND I DONT WANT TO BE ALONE BUT I WANT TO DO IT FOR MY KIDS.

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