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How about asking “WILL YOU MARRY ME ” to someone who does not only know the exact number of persons you have shared your bed with but also your wicked side of dumping someone just because you started getting attracted towards someone else.
I may go in further details about what that person knows about you but I guess you already caught the ball.
Yes, I m talking about marrying your best friend.
One biggest reason for you to think your best friend as your spouse is because he/she knows you inside-out. So you are at peace with yourself that you do not need to enter into a relationship with a stranger and then worry if he/she will accept you as you are or not.
Since the camaraderie between you two is so good that both of you already know each other all you might think is to start straight with the experience of the married life.
This biggest advantage in your relationship about knowing everything about each other and accepting it with full faith and heart might turn out to be the biggest disadvantage as well. But what is thirst to crow may not be to an eagle.
For example, you are so comfortable being with your best friend that it may be difficult to develop sexual attraction instantly. Initially, things might take time. Having a sexual relationship which is out of mutual affection and attraction will dissolve all the hesitations that best friends may observe during period of transition of Best friend to Best mates.
The irony says that best friends are completely open to each other but the lovers are supposed to be close you each other. But what will you do of a lover who cannot be your friend?
Everything will wither one day- your youth, your health. Not just at the peak years of your life but otherwise also one desire to share a comfort with someone exclusively, without any act or any explanations. Those who haven’t seen your best-friend as your spouses just re-wind your memories. May be you are mistaking the attachment with friendship when actually you are soul-mates. The suspense just can not be solved. In case it’s killing you, listen to your heart and solve the mystery by marrying your best friend.
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