Indian weddings are well known for their euphoric energy. The celebration is nothing less than a festival. Though the energy can be well observed in pre-wedding ceremonies but the main day functions are major attraction of the marriage. The passion for happiness is at peak levels in both the parties but those involved in the arrangements of the main day functions may seem little nervous , especially the wedding planer or the people involved from the bride’s side.
As the groom leaves his home on a white mare with the baraat, preceded by a wedding band playing music of high notes; the bride and his family wait for them at the wedding venue. The groom and his baraat are welcomed with showering of petals and rose water. The bride’s mother performs aarti for the groom to ward off evils. The groom is then escorted to the decorated stage where he sits and awaits for his bride.
Once the bride arrives the ceremony of Jaimaala is performed. The couple exchange garlands with each other during this ceremony. Some mischievousness can be observed here as the bride tries to put the garland across groom’s neck.
Then they are escorted by the family members to the site where the marriage ceremony is to be materialized. This is done as per the religion one belongs to. For example, Sikh marriages are performed in Gurudwara sahib where Anand Karaj is performed. Likewise, Hindu marriages are carried out in a decorated Mandap. As the ceremonies proceed the couple takes vows and promise to perform their duties towards each other.
On completion of the marriage ceremony, the ritual of Vidaai takes place which is common to all Indian wedding. A heart touching ceremony where the attachment of the bride with her family can be well noticed. Tears of joy and sadness together fill the atmosphere with nostalgia.
A big feast waits for everyone as the main day functions seek completion.