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Putting voice to words is important. It is a necessity if you are married. Else, see the flame of your marriage getting extinguished slowly but surely. Re-kindly it might mean starting from the very start. Better to know the fuel well before hand.
Disagreements are part of every marriage. Contrary to what couples believe disagreements help in communication. Since disagreements lead to arguments and with arguments, opens the windows of eyes and shutters of mouth.
Sadly, many couple keep quite in order to avoid disagreements.
Communicationproblem in marriage worsens when one keeps talking and doesn’t understand the view point of the other person. Seriously, it’s easier said than done. How can you understand why your spouse likes to sit in a certain posture on couch unless you have not sat on it yourself? The other side of coin must be given a chance to be represented.
Many a times, communicationproblemin marriage is a form of protection for the other. You may hide your un-satisfaction in marriage from your spouse. One needs to understand that by avoiding talking, one is only piercing the dagger further. You love them enough for not telling your un-satisfaction, either physical or related to home; you must love them enough to communication to prevent things from getting worse.
Though having kid’s means having your own family and it only strengthens the union between the couple but having them around all the time may lead to lesser time for the couple to talk intimately .Certain things cannot be talked in front of kids. Therefore a communication block occurs.
It’s only natural that everyone wants the best for their family. Therefore they do not hesitate in slogging themselves for days and nights together. Odd or late working hours will definitely pile on your cash but cut steeper on your family time. It is one of the major causes of communication problem in marriage.
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