Fights or arguments are common happenings in every relationship. No. relationship on this earth ever exists which did not have to undergo even a small disagreement. The art is not to fight, but how you make-up after a fights. It is very easy to indulge into a conflict with your partner but you should not allow it to get bitter to the core, so that there is no way left, to return.
When you have a fight always, try to analyze your partner’s point of view. Speak out your mind but do not be harsh with him/her. Explain the situation and try to listen to her too. Give her/him an opportunity to speak and explain. There might be certain hidden problems, which is bothering your partner and you need to talk to him/her openly to gain her/his confidence.
Always remember fights are natural in relations. Thus, always try to stay calm and keep your cool. Try to keep the argument as a low-key factor. This will help you to resolve it easily. Do not get on top of your partner.
Determine the type of the conflict. A fight can result from a mere disagreement between couples on trivial matters. Such fights should be treated very lightly and resolved quickly by discussing the matter or agreeing to what is right.
There can be various serious issues like cheating on, lying, etc. In such cases, the situation needs to be handled with utmost care. The person you is cheated upon or lied to should decide after taking into consideration all the instances that lead to such a situation. The other person, on the other hand, who has committed the crime should apologize from heart and change his attitude immediately.
Learn to take initiatives after a fight. There is no harm in being the first one to say sorry. Even if your are not at fault, learn to approach your partner. Your initiative will help him/her to calm down and think over the matter.
It is a very good practice to say sorry after a fight. This lightens the atmosphere. You can also express your apologies through cards, gifts or flowers. Take your partner out for a lovely evening followed by dinner for example, take her out for shopping or her favorite movie, if you are a girl accompany him to his favorite sports event or sacrifice your favorite daily soap from his rugby finals. You can also cook your partner’s favorite dish at come. This will help him/her to cool down.
A little bit of compromise and understanding is always the best medicine for a bad fight. Thus, add these two words to your life to make your relation a successful and cherished one.