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The exact practices trends covered by Anal Sex have been hotly debated in recent times. In past few years a measure of clarity has emerged regarding the perils of this growing habit among couples sex life. The risk factors involved in it are easy transmission of disease such as AIDS, STDs, herpes, infections and many more. Thus recent trends in intimate life of couples over time across nations have become area of concern. Here we will discuss three issues- first what is anal sex and how to do it? Secondly how to play it safe? Lastly beating risk factor.

Is it normal?

Getting aroused on having sensation of penis or finger on anus is quite normal. Anal Sex can be described with penetration of shaft, fingers or toys. Most couples enjoys being stimulated on anus. If one has urge to perform anal than there’s nothing wrong about it but it needs special care than ordinary intercourse. Anal or rectum is very sensitive areas and transmits infectious disease easily. So it is highly recommended that NEVER penetrate in Anal without condoms. Even if you are using fingers than be sure to use gloves.

Does it hurt?

Anus is not naturally lubricated as vagina thus it is prone to hurting woman if not handled properly. Using lubes for sufficient lubrication before penetration is recommended to avoid pain. Take care while you choose lubrication gels. As some lubes contain high oil content and can break the latex of condom which is highly harmful. A health tip here is not to insert your finger or shaft in vagina once you have inserted them in anus. Wash properly and change condoms before you come in her vagina. Any carelessness will result into STD and other disease which are worth more than the pleasure you have in anal penetration.

Some tips to play it safe

  • Use condoms and change condoms once you are done with the session
  • Use more than sufficient Lubes (Take care that oily lubricants doesn’t break the latex of condoms)
  • Stop if it hurts. If it still hurts as you stop moving than pull it out and try again
  • Initially use sex toys and fingering to prepare your gal for real session
  • Do not touch any other part of body before you wash your genitals thoroughly after anal.

Relax and Communicate

Relax state of mind and feasible communication between partners is a key to enjoy penetration through anus. With tensed mind, muscles gets even stiffer and cause more pain than normal. Further if you both can do bit of homework before you do actual session it helps you in drive maximum pleasure. It suggests that if your partner is not ready than sought out things with communication. You can ask her to insert her finger in your anus and hence she can’t resist when you are so committed. Furthermore this will help you analyze what amount of pain will happen and how you need to handle it to do away pain on your partner. Certainly penis is too big for butt. So initially make familiar her anus with your finger than you can use toys such as butt plug or dildos. By the time she gets ready and well-known with the stimulation and pleasures you can penetrate yourself through her anus.

Playing it safe whilst offbeating risk on health

Rectal and anal are very critical part and rapidly transmits infection in case of carelessness. An extreme agile behaviour has to be wear upon to nullify the risks involved. First rule is never touching other part of body after touching anus. Wash it first properly and then try other parts. Be it penis, sex toys or your fingers once you have tried them in anus don’t dare to touch vagina or any other parts. Wash them off properly with antiseptic lotions and liquids before you penetrate them in vagina. Wearing condom and latex sheets on shaft, fingers, dildos can prevent transmission of STDs and other infections and viruses.

A proper bowel movement is another need before you enter her anus. A slapdash and hasty action here can be dangerous than being an activity of enjoyment. There’s no harm in doing it in anal way but the catch is being careful and not messing up the risk factors attached to health in lieu of ephemeral enjoyment

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my husband likes it but i hate it.it hurts and doesnt feel all that good
#1 - stephanie - 10/09/2009 - 21:54
THANK YOU FOR THIS ARTICLE. I ESPECIALLY APPRECIATE THAT YOU STATED LATEX GLOVES ARE ESSENTIAL IN ENTERING THE ANUS. I HAVE NOT DONE SO WHILE TRYING TO STIMULATE MY PROSTATE. BUT, NOW, I BELIEVE IT WOULD BE MORE SANITARY, AND POSSIBLY WOULD SAVE ME FROM INFECTION. HOWEVER, I AM NOT SURE IF IT WOULD GIVE ME MORE PLEASURE. THIS REMAINS TO BE SEEN. OF COURSE, I WILL NOT USE VASELINE ON LATEX. AGAIN, THANK YOU.
#2 - [email protected] - 01/03/2011 - 15:34
You forget to in form people that in time they could end up with a permant problem. Fissures, incontinence,prolapse and in some cases even a stoma due to sphincter muscles damage . Which of course is going to mainly effect women as nine times out of ten their the reciever in a hetero[@]ual relationship. Is it worth the risk and would any decent man want to risk the future health of his wife or partner once educated about the possible out come. Ask your self; do you want to poo through a out let in your tummy, do you want to have played a part in someone ending up this way and will you be up for helping to change a colostomy bag if they do. Remember you only get one bum hole so look after it, it is designed as an out let for waste, not for [@]. Many people end up with stomas, due to an illness of some kind and would love to go to the loo normally, so baring this in mind why would you then do something that could bring such a thing upon yourself. Stimulation with a finger is very different to letting some one thrust in and out with a willy. Most women report that it hurts when they participate in anal and at times bleed, so does this not in it's self set the alarm bells ringing. After all if you bled from you [@]ia on having [@] would you not go to a doctor and get checked out because it would signal that something was a miss. If so then why would you do something that could end up causing pain, bleeding or permanent damage to a loved one!!!. Remember growing old ain't easy and your bowel will deteriorate with age, don't quicken the process.
#3 - Think! - 09/15/2011 - 02:12
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