Planning a bridal shower party can be fun, but it also serves a practical purpose too. It is a way for the bride to be, friends and family to come together and celebrate the upcoming nuptials, as well as help the bride to be establish a home with her soon to be husband. It is also a time when the bride to be can gather suggestions and advice for the wedding day, as well as life after the wedding.

The bride to be is the focus of the day, so make sure that the day caters to her needs and likes, because you don’t want to put any undue stress on an already nervous lady.

It is typically the responsibility of the maid of honor and the bridesmaid to host the bridal shower party, though anyone can host a shower. Once considered taboo, it is now acceptable for family members to throw a bridal shower for their little girl.

When throwing a party, develop a guest list with the bride to be. If there are other showers being held, make sure to go over the guest list with the bride to ensure that there are no overlaps, unless the bride requests it. Send out the invites at least two months in advance, so that distant family members have time to plan. Include directions, time, date, where the bride is registered and the theme, if there is a theme chosen.

Deciding upon the menu, keep in mind the tastes of the bride. Does she like cheese, but not like crackers? Cater the affair to her likes, since it is her day. Also take into consideration if there are any food allergies of any of the guests.

Plan for bridal shower games, favors and decorations, all dependent on the budget you have. Either way, plan to make the day the best for the bride. Make her feel like the princess she is. Try to make the day as comfortable as you can for the guest of honor. Make the day enjoyable, relaxed and special.