However men may like to believe and boost their ego with, the fact remains that they do not have monopoly on flirting. Flirting does not necessarily mean a man trying to impress or trying to get close to a woman. Flirting is as much about women trying to impress and know a man.
Though, often women also engage in flirtatious behavior just for some harmless fun and time pass (just as many men do with women). So, being a man it is important not only to be aware of the tricks and techniques of flirting with a woman of your choice but also to be equally knowledgeable about the signs that tell you that the woman is flirting with you. Without further ado we disclose to you the signs that you can spot in a woman and know if she is flirting with you.
Signs She Is Flirting With You
She Smiles at You
If you pass by her or if you glance at her and she smiles at you then it might mean that she is trying to flirt with you. If you smile at her and she returns the smile then the chances of her flirting and her interest in you are increased. Though, it might also be that she is just trying to be nice and polite to you. But if she is flashing a smile at you whenever your eyes are meeting hers then you can be sure that she is interested in you and trying her skills of flirting with you.
She Makes Eye Contact
Only when a woman is interested will she be looking to create an eye contact with you. So, if you find her glancing at you, trying to create an eye contact or maintaining the eye contact created with you then you can be rest assured that she is taking interest in you and is trying to flirt with you by creating your interest in her and bringing your attention to herself.
She Imitates your Body Movements
This can be a natural phenomenon or she can do it intentionally too, but if she is aping your body movements then you surely do interest her.
Mimicking body movements may include sitting in the same manner, tilting head in the same direction, crossing the same leg over the other, keeping hand on the chin or table in a similar way, etc. Usually when we are interested in someone we naturally pick up the behavior or body movement of that person.
She Keeps Walking by You
She may have no real reason to do so but will keep walking by you under some pretext or the other whether to eavesdrop on your conversation or to get you notice her. Either ways it proves of her interest in you and her flirtatious intentions too.
She Plays with Her Hair
Twisting her hair strands with her fingers or running fingers through them are sure shot flirting signs that a man should not miss out on. Some women do this to draw attention to herself or build attraction while for many others these come very naturally when they are eying someone or are flirting with someone. So, if she is sitting across the room and maintaining an eye contact or she is conversing with you, and if that is accompanied by any kind of fiddling with her hair then it is a clear hint that she is flirting with you.
She Touches You
There are hundreds of excuses that she can use to touch you. If she uses any one of them then that’s a telltale sign of her flirting with you. She may also seem very casual or might not even seem to have noticed that she has touched you while conversing with you. But any slight touch on the shoulder, her hand on your knee, wrist, hand, etc. means that she is interested in you and trying to get closer or break the touch barrier.
She Creates Proximity
It might be an accidental bumping on you followed by a seductive or cute apology with a smile. It can also be a bold but slight brushing with a mysterious glance accompanied by a seductive smile. Or, she might just stand or sit very close to you so that her body touches yours. Whatever the way is, it is a miss-me-not sign of flirting.
She Fidgets with Her Accessories or Hair
Fidgeting with her hair, twisting the ring in her finger, tossing the glass in her hand, etc. when she is talking to you is a sign of her interest in you. These are also equally good signs that tell you that she is flirting with you. However, the same behavior points towards her disgust towards you if she is looking away from you or looking around while talking to you.
She Draws your Attention to Her Lips or Mouth
This she can do while drinking her cocktail or while sipping fruit juice. She might use another coat of lip gloss to make her lips look fuller and more attractive.
What she does is not important but if her efforts are drawing your attention to her lips or mouth then don’t keep any doubt, she is flirting with you.
She Moves Out of Her Group
If she is with her friends or in a group and she moves away from them then she is inviting you to approach her. Since it is difficult for a man to approach a girl and talk to her while she is in a group, therefore she would move away to provide you with a chance to catch the hint and move ahead. This she would do only if she has interest in you.
She Compliments You
If she keeps complimenting you for things and tries to impress you or boost your ego then all she is doing is flirting with you. Especially, if she compliments you about things that either you think are not your strongest points or you are actually very proud of, then you must be sure of her flirting with you.
She Finds all your Jokes Funny
Yes, if she laughs at all your jokes and finds them funny even if they are not then that is another sign that she is charmed or fascinated by you and is flirting with you.
She Approaches to Talk to You
This is a bold step but many women often don’t hesitate to take this step. If she approaches to talk to you by any pretext, even if it’s only a cry for help for something not that important or serious, then she is trying to get to know you or find a way to talk to you. A woman who is interested in you and is flirting with you only would bother to take such a step.
There are many other signs that can tell you if a woman is flirting with you. Women have various alluring ways to attract men and flirt with them. But then do not rely on a single sign for confirmation that she is flirting with you. Try to find at least two-three signs before you conclude about it. And finally, trust your instincts.