Have you been waiting for your prince charming or the princess of your dreams? Love can play strange games with the heart. You might think you have found the right person, but what if he or she is not the right partner for you? There have been many incidents where people have settled down with the wrong partner.
As a matter of fact, it happens often. This leads to frustration, frequent arguments, and many times the relationship just does not work out.
So before you settle down with someone, you have to be very careful who you choose to be your life-partner. You do not want to have a failed relationship.
So how do you know if the person is not made for you? The phrase, “not for you” is certainly not stamped across their forehead. So what is the way? First of all, you need to take the time to find the one you really adore. Admittedly is time consuming, but it is worth it.
First of all, do not go for just a random someone because you are afraid of being alone. That is one reason why people often make the biggest mistake of their life.
If you think that the other person is not compatible with you, you have nothing in common, or the two of you will certainly not make each other happy, then it is better not to make any kind of commitment. Wait for the right person to come.
Similarly, do not approach someone who is interested in you if the feeling is not mutual. You might think that this is a way of showing gratitude or you might feel obligated. But there is no such case. You are not obligated, so do not feel that way.
The next thing is to not to try to seek the attention of the people you are not interested in. You do not need all the people in the world to like you. And that means do not flirt with someone unless you wish to have a relationship with that person.
Often it happens that when you flirt with someone, you start to feel that you are obliged to date that person. To stay safe, avoid flirting.
Last but not the least, believe in yourself and believe that you will find the right one for you.