Sex is what one perceives it to be. It is a different world by itself. It is not just union of two bodies; it is union of two souls and two minds.Â But still, some couples will face some problems while they are at the height of their ecstasy.
They are new to the act and they have to learn it on their own. Here are some suggestions to make their happy moments really moments of fantasy and ecstasy.
Do not concentrate too much on Orgasms:
Of course, Orgasms are the core of sex. But, if one concentrates too much on it, it may not happen. One should enjoy the happy moments and it will be sufficient to generate Orgasms. Orgasms vary from person to person either in length or volume.
It depends on the body constitution of individuals. Knowing your orgasms, one can discuss with the partner and then choose the best technique that pleases both. One should remember that Orgasm is not the be all and end all in sex. It is the fantasy and foreplay which is equally important. This prompts the orgasms.
This is another milestone in sex life. Many do not succeed in sex or in life for that matter, because they do not communicate. Sex is a time to enjoy and at the same time express oneself.
The communication could be oral, symbolic and many times the approaches of the partner itself could construe what the other requires. Tell your partner what your like and the partner will come out with his/her likes. Approach the partner the way they like and thereby both are happy.Â All this is possible only if the partners communicate appropriately.
Role of masturbation:
Masturbation is expression of his feelings. Some call it a negative approach in sex. Instead, tell your partner what you like or what you want. That will make the life of both partners happy and they can make their moments together really memorable.
Toys are becoming more and more popular in the world of sex. The couples are normally advised to shop for toys together. They can initially buy small toys and then they can go for bigger ones. The toys are meant to make their sex life more enjoyable.