If you want to understand how to have great sex, you should think about what makes some sex bad. Many people have a list of different “rules” when it comes to sex.
Remember that these are not actually rules. It is all a matter of opinion. Different people enjoy sex in many different ways. I am going to discuss some of the more popular “rules” that go with sex.
Rules are made to be broken.
Sex is a fascinating and most importantly fun experience. If you are attaching a lot of rules and regulations to your sex life, you might find that you are lacking something special.
Sure, it’s your choice. It’s your body. You don’t have to do anything that you don’t wish to do. This is the question you need to ask yourself: are my rules repressing my true desires? We are all products of the society we live in.
Many of your ideas about sex came from those around you. You observe others throughout your life and make up your own opinions based on what you see. Perhaps it’s time to stop following rules and guide lines and listen to your heart.
“Talking about sex rules.”
It’s important to remember that some rules are good. Rules are made to protect what is right and true, right? Here are the common rules and myths about what is “right” when it comes to sex.
“It’s my sex partner’s job to make me climax.”
This is a popular misconception. If you have found someone to have sex with, you’ve won right? Wrong. You need to remember that each person is unique. Something that makes one person feel good might not be as nice for another person. Whatever moves you have, they will not work on every person.
“The spark always fades.”
After you have been with the same partner for some years, you might expect a decline in the passion, the fire – that spark. It’s important to keep a positive attitude. Like all things in life – sex is what you make of it. Sex cannot happen without two people trying to create a good feeling together.