Men and porn – the big link.

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menporn There are many articles out there talking about sex. Unfortunately for men, many of the articles are aimed at women. It’s important to remember that it takes two people to have sexual intercourse.

Men are a part of this process too. As such, there is not as much consideration given to the male sex drive and its inner workings. The information that follows should help.

It’s in a man’s nature to hunt.

Men view sex as a type of goal – a great achievement. It is in our genetic code. We are driven by the urge to mate. Things are a little different for women. For most women, there is a natural urge to select the right mate.

If you are a woman, you must know that all men think about sexual intercourse and we do think about it a lot. If you meet a man, there is a big chance he is, at some point, thinking about having sex with you. He may not be aware of it.

However, there is a definite desire to mate. If you are with someone already, when men look at you they are probably comparing themselves to your partner – sizing him up. It’s in a man’s nature to act this way. We are but animals, after all. This is why we love sex so much.

Men rely more on being visually aroused.

While many women are more prone to enjoying fantasies about sex and other desires, men are most stimulated when given a visual aid. This is how men know, from a glance, who they would like to mate with.

It’s the process of natural selection. It’s no wonder that men are the bigger buyers and watchers of pornography. It is not because men are dirtier than women – they are simply more visually inclined.

There are different types of pornography.

Porn does not have to be a video cassette or DVD. It is not restricted to magazines. There are many different ways that men enjoy visual sexual stimulation.

Some enjoy strip clubs, some enjoy watching women at the beach, and some may be flirting. The reason for this variation is that men like sexual imagery. There is a definite difference between the desires of men and women.

The primary use for pornography is to assist in sexual stimulation during masturbation, when a man is severely lacking in visual aids. If he has a naked woman next to him, then there is little need for further visual aids.

Perhaps if your man asks you to leave the lights on during sex, you should indulge him once in a while. It’s going to increase the pleasure for both of you, I assure you.



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