What is the primary factor contributing to couples not having sex? It’s simple. Someone in the relationship, or both people, have lost their desire for sex. So have you lost your sexual desires?
Do not worry too much; there are many ways to get them back! It’s important to get rid of any bad thoughts you have that might be associated with sex. Don’t think about bad things when you think about sex. Don’t attach negative emotions to your sex life.
Sex is a wonderful thing that brings two people closer and gives eternal pleasure. If you have negative thoughts about sex, your body is going to respond appropriately – in a negative way. If you want to have a strong sexual spark, you need to think positively about sex.
How to get back your sexual urges.
Do you want to start having good sex again? Do you long for the days when you had a great sex life? It’s possible to get all of that back, and more! You need to attach good feelings to your sexual thoughts.
Try doing something that you enjoy, that has something to do with sex. Get in the mood with a sensual bath. Try reading one of your favourite novels to relax.
Do anything that you enjoy, make sure that you are in a good mood. Okay, now you are feeling good. Start to think about sex. When you are feeling good and your body is feeling nice, what better time to enjoy sex?
Do not give yourself the idea that having sex is going to make you stressed. Sex is not a chore to be carried out. It is enjoyable. It is passionate. There is nothing in the world that can compare to sexual intercourse and the feelings we get when aroused. Think positive thoughts and you will enjoy sex.
Sexual intercourse is about pleasure, not just orgasms.
The final goal of sexual intercourse is for the man to ejaculate into the vagina, hoping to create a new life. As human beings, we are capable of having sex for pleasure.
What is your reason for having sex? You want to feel good and sex makes you feel good. This is why you should treasure every moment of your love making sessions. Enjoy foreplay – it will make the final pay off all that much intense if you take the time to warm up.