It’s hard to find a girlfriend nowadays, much less a hot babe as a girlfriend! You may claim that you can get one any time, any day, and anywhere but when it comes to a true relationship, it takes more than time and money; real effort and emotions are involved as we’re not talking about the one-night stand or a passing fling or some short-term relationships. Building a real relationship is indeed a challenge; finding the right girl to start that challenge is even more challenging, especially if you are shy and awkward with ladies.
Pick up several tips as listed below for an attitude make-over to get that hot babe as your lasting girlfriend!
You are hot! Be positive about yourself. If you don’t think you’re hot and worth some sizzling, no one else is going to think or care. It’s all in yourself; what is in your mind determines whether you’ll have a shot at any girl you fancy. If you keep dwelling on possible bad luck, it just might come on you; so be positive about yourself to boost your self-confidence, for a girl might just get a sense of it, and open up to you.
Grab the bull by the horns. All of us experience a bout of anxiety in our lives; some more than others, maybe. Nevertheless, anxiety can grip you into frigidity and the golden opportunity will pass you by. So, take a deep breath and look at her with all the confidence you can muster and say ‘hi.’ That’ll be a good start, as nothing will happen if you don’t make it happen. As the saying goes, ‘a little goes a long way’.
Get social. Instead of warming your couch on weekend nights, get off and impress her with your social skills; be it a double date or a full blown party. Show her some fun and how fun you are, with her and with others around you.
Be a bit mysterious. You do not need to reveal everything about yourself until she’s really into you; meanwhile, flirt a little, and display a bit of mystery about yourself to keep her guessing and intrigued.
Have a great time. While it comes naturally to many people, some need to relax and enjoy themselves. Identify what you like and put yourself fully into it. When you have fun, you’ll attract others (and the hot babe) to join you.