Women are all around but finding a girlfriend is not as easy as reaching out and picking one. It’s not so obvious where a guy can look for a girlfriend. Before starting your search, it’s important to ask yourself a few questions.
You need to be clear on the kind of girl you are looking for. She could be right next to you and you wouldn’t know it if you don’t know what you’re looking for. Also ask yourself if you are boyfriend material or if you just want someone in your life for a short time. Are you ready to put in the time and effort necessary to be a boyfriend and concentrate on just one person?
People give off these things called vibes and they tend to give them off subconsciously. If you are a two-timing cheat you will most likely end up with the same kind of girl because of the vibe you give off. Whatever your intentions, have them clear in your mind before you set out on your quest. And keep the following in mind.
No Pubs or Bars
These are good places to find girls in terms of quantity but not quality if you are looking for something serious. These are places both girls and guys go to let lose, get together with friends and perhaps hook up with an interesting guy rather than look for a long-term relationship.
No Clubs Either
There is little difference between a club and a bar as far as the crowd, goings-on and intentions. It’s not fertile ground for finding a girl for a long-term relationship.
Campuses are a good setting. You’ll meet someone with whom you’ll have the opportunity to spend a lot of time with and get to know well. You’ll be at the same stage in life and you will be ready for settling down when the time is right. And you’ll find someone with a mind of her own here. Many college sweethearts wind up as husband and wife.
Online dating sites are another good place to search for love. However don’t be random and do some research on which sites are genuine and effective. Good ones will cost more money so choose carefully before you invest any money on a membership. When you decide on a site, write your profile in a way that is interesting and attention-grabbing since there’s a boatload of other guys out there looking for the perfect girl too.
Just don’t lie or stretch the truth because it will come out if real dates start to happen and it will hurt a relationship that might have otherwise worked out great. Also be sure to read over a girl’s profile carefully and see if you are both looking for the same thing. Narrow it down to two or three young ladies, keep in touch for two or three weeks and then ask for a date. Hopefully, your search won’t go on for too long.
Play your cards right and you could soon be one of those cozy couples that make people believe in true love.