The word “sex”, is very small but the most effective one. The effect of sex is unbelievable and beyond explanation, which is universally proved. Many people believe that ‘sex’ is something that reflects something wild, the person having sexual arousals become vulgar and inhuman.
But such a concept of sex is not true. Rather, it is a foundation of love. It creates a strong bonding between husband and wife or those who love each other. It is one of the most sacred things when it is used in a fair way. But some times, some people may use this sex in an unethical way which is very harmful.
Sex plays a vital role in our married life. Couples, who can not lead their sexual life happily, suffer from various types of mental set back as well as physical problem. It can also create an obstruction in the way of leading a healthy and normal life style.
In the most unfortunate situations, the relationship of the couple can also break due to unsatisfied sexual life. At this stage, some of the frustrated couples may use this sex in unethical way and try to get sexual satisfaction.
That is why, it is important to maintain a healthy and normal sexual life in marriage. Besides this, many couple even looses their interest towards sex due to mental dissatisfaction towards partner, monotonous life styles, heavy work pressure etc.
It you want to keep a proper sexual life then you must try to pump up the passion and interest of sex in your life. You may try to communicate with your partner, in depth and improve your conjugal life so that the passion of the sex can remain alive for a longer time. Discussed here are some best ways by which you can spice up your sex life.
Create A Romantic Atmosphere
If you really want to enjoy sex, then you must realize that romantic atmosphere can lead a vital role. You must create a passionate ambiance before you start having sex. Your room must be scrupulously clean.
You may use clean and light shaded bed cover on your bed and spray a room freshener that is spicy or musky in fragrance. You may place a bunch of fresh flowers at the corner of your room. The light of this room must be deem, so that the room can create a dreamy ambience.
Self Grooming Guide
You must try to be clean and fresh and wear clean clothes before you plan to have sex. A few drop of colon or bath salt will make you fresher and fragrant. You can also use some body spray that is seducing enough to attract your partner towards you, very easily.
Communicate Each Other Before Sex
You must try to talk with your partner about sex and share your feeling before your start having sex. Some general topic too can be discussed. But never talk on any sort of problematic topic as that will make your entire urge vanish in seconds. In this way both of you can come closer, make you intimate and increase your passion towards your partner.
Importance Of Sexy Dresses
Wearing sexy dresses create the atmosphere sexy and naughty. Be innovative about the dressing. You can try to insist your female partner to wear sexy under wear and cover the whole body with a transparent night dress, so that, the vital parts of the body are visible naughtily. She will look sexy that way. You are definite to rediscover your partner that way and will get more attracted towards her like never before
Significance Of Foreplay Before Sex
Foreplay is most important things before your start love making. So, you must try to spend more time in foreplay. You may watch some explicit movie with your partner which will enhance your libido and make to feel the need to come closer to each other. You can try out some innovative ideas of foreplay as well.
At the time of foreplay, you may use feed each other fruits like grapes, strawberry, cherries etc. passionately. These are some of the well known aphrodisiac foods that will definitely create magic in your sex life too. You may also use some ice cubes and rub gently on your partner’s body with the help of your mouth to arouse passion.
Oral Sex Can Be Exciting
When you get excited and your body becomes heated, you may start oral sex. When you perform oral sex with your partner, both of you may try to do different types of jobbing movement with your tongue. You must try to maintain a softer and slower movement at this time. You can also invent some new technique and enjoy oral sex to a maximum level.
Reach The Climax With Love Making
Love making should be the last step of sex, if you want to get full satisfaction with the sexual encounter. When you reach to the optimum level of excitement and orgasm, then only you must perform love making. Love making is the ultimate way by which you can get maximum sexual satisfaction.
Generally most of the people indulge in only two to three common techniques at the time of love making. If you want to bring variation in your sexual life and enjoy every part of it, then you can try to out more new techniques and add to your sexual satisfaction.
For your aid on this, various types of sex related books, journals, magazines and video tapes are available in the market. These agents can assist you to try out a new sex posture during love making with your partner. You may find difficult to follow them at the beginning. But once you adopt the techniques you may enjoy it lot.
Wine Can Spur Up Sex Life
It can be even more enjoying if you two can share a few pegs of wine before love making. You can be non drinker, or even, your partner can even be a non drinker, but it is not a vice to be innovative to enjoy your sex life. But, remember, do not drink more than the limit, or you will get deviated from your main intention, love making. Treat it as a catalyst for arousing sex.
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