Change Your Sexual Positions to Have Longer Lasting Sex

Sexual Positions

Most men would like to experience a longer duration of sexual activity. However, an estimated statistic of 3 out of 10 men in America experience premature ejaculation. This is a condition where the male either ejaculates too soon, or cannot control the timing of his ejaculation. As the female needs to be aroused for around 20 minutes before an orgasm sets in, an early or quick ejaculation will not be sexually satisfying for the woman.

You can try the following sexual positions to improve the situation.
A Comfortable Position
Feel free to be open to discuss with your partner which sexual positions would be comfortable for both of you even though it might seem to be quite embarrassing. Being open and frank to identify each other’s preference will enhance your sexual encounters. Therefore, open communication between the two of you may uncover a suitable position for both of you. You can try out different positions that are not only comfortable but also stimulating.

Not Porn-like
A word of advice – do not try out positions which were displayed in adult movies. Many men think that imitating those pornographic sexual positions will excite the woman, but they may actually end up harming her or causing her pain. For example, penetration with the female on her back and her knees pushed up to her stomach will cause a lot of pressure on her pelvic bone. This vigorous position is only meant to arouse the viewers as they view the act, but does not give sexual pleasure to the female involved. The positions in any porn movie are very misleading.

Simple Positions
Again, do not be influenced by porn which tempts the male to try various unrealistic positions.  The simplest is that of the missionary where both the male and female are in control of what they feel, whereas the “doggy style” position is really difficult for the couple even if it seems erotic.

Penetration Angle
Sometimes one might have to use a soft prop to assist in penetrating at the optimum angle to experience a higher quality of the sexual act. Your knees can be propped up with some soft pillows in order to allow greater stimulation of the female genitals.

It is advisable for the couple to experiment bit by bit to discover what works or what does not work for both parties, as there is always room for improvement in sexual intimacy. For example, a bigger sized penis gives more satisfying sex to the female as more nerves are stimulated in the vagina.



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