Dating means a lot of tension and anxiety to many. But it is meant to be a fun and happy event. We often put too much stress into planning a perfect date causing anxiety and worry to our self and discomfort to our dating partner. And in all this additional effort of making everything perfect we lose out on the fun part of dating as well. Thus, we often find our date ending up in a disaster causing further worry and concern for our future dates.
A perfect date however does not require you to make any great planning or arrangements. A date is all about spending some good time with the person you are going for the date with. The main objective of a date should be to get to know your dating partner better while having fun at the same time.
So, for that you must be in a position to understand the kind of places and activities she would like to go for a date with you. Make sure that the place you go for the date makes both of you comfortable and provides enough scope of interaction to both of you. Do not choose any place just because she likes it. You too must be comfortable in the location and the ambience. Discomfort on the part of any one of the two of you will only increase the chance of an unsuccessful date.
Do not speak, behave or discuss things that the other person doesn’t feel comfortable with. Too much of formality or too much of the lack of it, both may be bad for a date. Though, it doesn’t mean that you need to put up a different or fake personality in front of her. Just speak and behave in a confident yet friendly manner and crack a joke or two when the occasion allows.
You need to give a little attention to how you dress, look and smell. Choosing the wrong attire or smelling awful will not only make your dating partner maintain a distance from you but may also cause him/her embarrassment in front of others.
These basic things will always help you sail through a date successfully. Finally, any date is a perfect date if the time spent with your partner is memorable to you as an enjoyable and happy one.