A Secret Women Know But Men Dont
September 29, 2008
When it comes to getting a woman into your life in a romantic way many men fail miserably. The fact of the matter is that most men will find that once they confess their feelings to a woman they are romantically involved with the gal immediately shuts them out from her life and begins to distance herself from him. This is not true to a few ‘gal magnets’ out there but it does hold true to a lot of you guys reading this.
So what is the secret that will make a relationship trigger in a positive sort of a way? Why do so many guys find their lady loves turning away from them and shutting them out once they confess their feelings for her? IS there something that women know that men don’t? Probably yes. Many people feel that telling a gal you are trying to get one step up the ladder in your relationship and get some sort of control over her. This is strict no-no and will backfire on you.
What the gal really does know all along is your feelings for her only you never get to know. Call it her sixth sense if you may, but it is true. You never really have to tell her outright that you like her in a romantic sort of a way. She does want to hear it from you but only AFTER she has made her feelings known to you. She does not want you to take the initiative. Perhaps she will send you signs to give you the go-ahead, but if you take the initiative it is going to back fire 99 percent of the time.
She knows that you are eager to take your relationship further but she is apprehensive and afraid, perhaps of messing up a good friendship, perhaps she is still gauging you or perhaps she is still uncertain of you as a person. So the best way to go about advancing your chances of success with her is to give her room and freedom, if she spends more time with you on her own free will – rest assured your relationship will develop the way you want it to –and in its own sweet time, so give it the patience it will demand!
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