5 Ways to Bring More Passion to Lovemaking

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Has your previously scorching sex simmered down to a low boil? The following are five easy ways to get it on the boil again.

1. Mark the touchy spots
Asked to list erogenous parts of the body, the parts that would feature on almost everyone’s list are lips, thighs, breasts and other spots that are quite common. If you want to depart from the norm, go for the parts hardly anyone thinks of and you will be remembered as being extraordinary.

There are places that are packed with nerves, but which are rarely touched, such as the ears which can be nibbled on or blown into for great sensation, the back of the knees, the neck which is a very sweet place to tenderly rub and gently bite on and the fingers when sucked on and squeezed.

2.  Set the mood
It may sound cliché, but the sizzle that comes from making love in a room that has been specifically designed for this is anything but cliché. Lighting with scented candles, getting into lingerie rather than a comfy t-shirt, wine chilling in an ice bucket and mellow music will go a long way to putting both you and your partner in the mood.

3. Rub it in
A massage is relaxing and a nice way to ease into love making. Make it extra special by using flavored or fragrant massage oils. Spend extra time on those extra-sensitive places, adding caresses and little kisses here perhaps with some gentle nipping and pulling. You’ll leave your partner tingling all over and more than ready for you.

4. Silent conversation
Make use of your mouth but not for the usual kind of conversation. It’s a nice way to please a woman for whom penetrative sex alone does not work and it lets a man lie back, relax and have pleasure without the usual pressure to perform. It will also add variety to your game.

5. Play it up
Some people hold back during sex, which means that with time they end up in a rut. Women are afraid to appear to have been round the block too many times if they showcase some unusual skills while men are afraid to try something their partner may not like. As with all things in life, take a risk or you’ll never know. The more likely outcome is a vibrant sex life rather than a partner who runs out of the room screaming that your skills are too good to be true.



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