Men and women may aspire for the same happy ending in their relationships but their approach, beliefs and behavior about love, dating and intimacy could not be more different.
Men rely on luck to get together with a woman they like, but there are ways to up your chances of winning that fair lady you’ve had an eye on.
Get into the right frame of mind before you approach a woman. Expect challenges, little games to be played, to be stood up or cancelled on at the last minute. If you are prepared for it, you will be able to take it in stride and keep up the chase. If you are not, you will quickly give up and stand no chance of winning her or the next woman who comes along. Prep your mind just like you would for a physical challenge.
Take it easy
The task ahead may seem tough, but you need to keep your cool. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself and work yourself into a mass of nerves. You’ll give off scared and desperate vibes and that will repel rather than pull a woman. Make your approach as if she would be missing out if she turned you down and she’s more likely to be positive.
Keep your flirt on
Even after the cat is seemingly in the bag, you’ve got to keep stroking it or it will wander off in search of a cozier place to curl up and get some attention. Don’t stop flirting with a woman because you’ve managed to go on a few dates with her. Keep the spark burning with some sweet surprises, some sweet words and new reasons to keep seeing you. Never let things get stale.
Show your good side
Some charm and perhaps good looks may get you through the door, but it will take more if you are to go further. She has to see something to make her want to stay with you and deepen the relationship. Give her reason to believe that you can protect her and would be a reliable and trustworthy life partner in the long-term.