Young children live in their own little fantasy world. It is a world of make believe. As they cross infancy, their imagination grows and their levels of comprehension increase.

These children make up stories to entertain themselves. This may initially start with cute storytelling sessions and may soon spill over into real life. They start lying to their parents and peers.

Lying is their way of asserting their independence and ability to do things by themselves. Fueled with imagination, they come up with lies to tide over tough situations.

As parents it is important for you to set a good example. Use opportunities to show the child how lying hurts others. Lies can be of different types, they can be vicious and hurtful, while others can be an extension of truth! Understand the nature of the lie and help your children understand the repercussions.

Do not yell at children for lying. Instead, make them realize that you are disappointed with their behavior when they could have easily owned up and sought help. Be consistent in your approach. This way your toddler understands that it is good to be honest and truthful.

When you catch your child lying, take time to understand why the child is lying, and the circumstances, which are causing him/her to lie. Explain how you would rather have him/her tell you the truth and that you are there to help him/her.

At the same time, in your own social interactions, be sure to be honest and upfront. This is leading by example.

Children cannot always understand that they are lying. They are just letting their imagination run wild and do not understand the consequences. It is your job as a parent to guide them and make them understand the significance of fantasy and reality.

Praise your children when they speak the truth or own up to their mistakes. More often than not, fear makes a child lie. This can be overcome by reassuring them that you love them and will help resolve problems if they speak the truth.