The biggest lies you’ll hear about sex
September 17, 2009
There are a lot of varying opinions on sex. We all have different tastes and beliefs. Many of us do not speak about sex enough. Instead we simply follow some simple rules or myths about sex. I am going to discuss these popular misconceptions.
The main goal of intercourse is to penetrate – lie.
This is a lot like worrying about the outcome of a game, instead of enjoying the playing of the game. Okay so sex is not a game. However, it is meant to be fun. If you are not enjoying the foreplay, the kissing, the rubs, the sheer sensuality involved in sex – you are missing out on a lot of fun.
It is not about scoring. You do not need to worry about getting over the finish line. Sex is most enjoyable when taken slowly. Patience is a virtue as always. When the build up goes on for a longer time it leads to a heightened climax.
If you are thinking of sex as a game with a score or some kind of race you really do not understand what it is to be human. Few other species have sex for pleasure alone. We are not robots so don’t act like one.
Having fantasies during sex is wrong – lie.
We all have sexual fantasies. Many people keep these types of things to themselves. It’s popular belief that they are best kept to self love sessions. It is often very exciting to share your fantasies with your lover.
It’s important to consider their possible reactions first. You do not want to scare them off! Talking about yours and your partners sexual fantasies is a great way to bring you closer during sex.
If you share similar desires it can be even better. Perhaps you will find a new way to please your lover. Fulfilling your inner most desires is what sex is all about. We are animals, listen to the beast within. Don’t be afraid of your own sexual fantasies. Everyone has them and they very healthy.
Quantity is better than quality – lie.
The key goal for many people is to have a lot of sex. I ask you, is it good sex? If you are not taking a mindful approach to intercourse it could easily become stagnant. The key to good sex is more than just lots of sex. You will become bored unless you find a way to spice things up.
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