Sexual Tips For Good Sex Life

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goodsexlifeAre you in a relationship? Do you feel that your partner is starting to enjoy sex less? There are many ways to spice up your sex life. There are also many ways to destroy a perfectly good sex life. Here are some great tips to help you keep that flame in your sex life.

Don’t develop a routine for your sexual encounters.

I have read this advice before and it does not necessarily work. You’re supposed to look forward to the set time all day. In fact, you will just become tired of the lack of excitement and spontaneity. Creating a routine for sex is just going to get boring. Try to keep it exciting with an element of surprise.

Keep your sex life interesting.

Sure, it’s easy to become comfortable with a certain flow of sexual moves and routines. This way you both know what to expect, right? There’s no chance of “messing up” or failing to please each other. Don’t worry about this. Sexual intercourse is about passion not robotic “moves”. Mix it up and keep it fresh.

Show your partner love – even when it’s not time for sex.

Many people have certain “signs.” They use these to show that they want sex. It may be a particularly loving kiss, a sensual hug, a back rub. Whatever it is, you need to do this type of thing more often.

Don’t save these special shows of affection strictly for when you’re in the mood. Show your partner affection every chance you get. Often the best foreplay comes out of these little moments. A passing kiss, a romantic glare, a sexual gesture. The build up and the wanting always makes the final climax more intense.

After you have been in a relationship for awhile, things can change.

You may feel that being in a committed relationship (such as marriage) entitles you to sex. This is a great attitude to have – if you never want to have good sex again! If you are making your partner feel as though they “owe” you sex, you’re not going to get very good sex.

Make your partner feel wanted but let them know it’s okay to wait. Sure, your partner might agree to sex. If you are pressuring them for sex, they may feel obliged. This kind of sex is a sure fire way to turn your partner off.