The combination of scent and touch is extremely effective in opening up intimacy between two people. That’s basically how we communicate love in an effective way, a way that doesn’t involve having to discuss the subject a great deal. It also works wonderfully on a basic physical level. There are a lot of nerve endings that follow along the path of the spine.
As you massage, your touch brings the blood to the surface, you speed the absorption of the oils into the skin, and you also bring up the level of oxytocin, the hormone needed in high levels for the process of sexual arousal.
The Importance Of Touch
Goes back to our very roots of being in the womb, our mother’s holding us, and then childhood innocent games with parents, siblings and friends. In later life, we tend to duplicate this, if we can, with our intimate relations. The Sexual massage is one very special way to do this, and can bring not only relaxation, but also a keener sense of intimacy to both partners.
Many men think of this wonderful fusion of intimate acts, but they seldom step up to the plate. They either fear rejection or they aren’t sure how to initiate a sensual massage. The truth is that most women are very receptive to a massage, but how receptive your woman will be to a sensual Sexual massage depends heavily on her mood. You can help by starting with a regular Sexual massage and easing your way into a more intimate affair. Here’s how to get started.
Before you get started, you’ll need some items apart from your hands and a body to put them on. To help you maximize her enjoyment of the evening’s entertainment, make sure you invest in baby wipes, Sexual massage oil or lotion that is safe for internal use, a blindfold, and a towel.
Few Of The Important Sexual Massage Techniques
The Welcoming Press: With your lover lying face down, straddle him or her or kneel at their side. Gently press down on your partner’s shoulders, and on either side of the spine. Do not press directly on the spin at any time during the massage. This stroke gives your partner a few moments to get used to the feeling of your hands on their skin.
The Back Warmer: Now begin to warm your lover’s back. With a flat hand, fingers together, palm in contact with the skin, move the hands in parallel lines up either side of the spine, then out and across the shoulders, and down the sides of the torso.
Kneading: Working as deeply as is comfortable for your partner, use your fingers to knead the muscles of the back, starting with the neck and shoulders and working your way down. Go slowly and use additional oil as necessary.
Sexual Energy Release Points, Neck and Ears: Encourage your lover to breathe in a deep and relaxing manner as you gently Sexual massage their neck, making small circles over the release points on the upper neck and about halfway up the ears. If the Sexual massage is a prelude to lovemaking, now is a really good time to let the kissing begin. Remember, too, that a woman’s breasts are highly charged with erotic energy and can create a dramatic arousal response when massaged or caressed.