Pregnancy – you don’t have to say goodbye to sex!
October 5, 2009
If you are expecting a child, you know the joys and wonders this time can bring. You have probably already read about every possibly aspect of being pregnant.
You know how to do the right thing for your baby. However, it’s important to remember that, while you are carrying your unborn child, you need to be happy too.
Your own happiness and health has a direct influence on the wellbeing of your baby. If you want to be happy, it’s very important to be sexually satisfied.
Having a bad sex life while pregnant can lead to a bad sex life after birth!
If you want to ensure a long-lasting relationship with your partner, make sure that you don’t let your passions die. While you or your partner is pregnant, either of you might experience changes in your sexual desires.
Some men have trouble reconciling the ideas of mother and lover. You are their lover; now you are to be a mother. This reaction is perfectly natural, but you need to take steps to ensure that you are sexually healthy.
Don’t expect that sex will just continue to happen if it’s going to happen. Like all good things in life, a healthy sex life takes some working on.
Sex during pregnancy – there is no right or wrong.
As a human being, you are unique. Your pregnancy is different from any other pregnancy out there. Accordingly, you have unique passions, wants and needs.
When you are considering how much, if any, sex you should have while pregnant, don’t worry about what other people are doing.
If your neighbours had sex all the time while expecting a child, than that’s good for them. You might know people who didn’t have any sex whatsoever during this period of time. Good for them! It’s totally fine to have sex, or not, as long as you are satisfied and your partner is content.
Address your own needs, discuss them with your partner and relate them to your needs. This way you will be setting yourself up for success in the long run.
You should have exactly as much sex as you need to be satisfied. This amount varies for each person. Don’t feel ashamed of having sex while pregnant; it’s very healthy and often necessary to maintain good health.
If your partner is missing sex, remember to address their needs too. Talk to each other and make sure you are both happy. Communication is the best way to make sure nobody is unhappy, right? Right!

























