Marriage life and the essential boredom

marriage-lifeandboredam

It is a well known fact that marital life remains pleasurable and enjoyable for the first 2-3 years of marriage. After that a downfall comes in marital relationship because of various reasons. The newly married couples feel very happy and enjoy a lot during the early days of marriage. Honeymoon days are among the best days of life in which a person enjoys in a full mood. But as the days pass bye, a downfall in the marital relationship starts taking place. Both the partner starts feeling boredom in the marital relationship. They come across various problems of life due to which they breakdown which ultimately leads to a miserable marital relationship.

Boredom in marital relationship takes place because of several reasons; responsibilities and bondages are one of them. Due to immense responsibilities of family and various bondages the person starts feeling boredom. Before marriage, one can roam anywhere like a free bird but after marriage the person feels like a bird in a cage. Men are more prone to these types of feelings. They cannot come late at home as the spouse is waiting for them at home and if they come late then it becomes a matter of conflict. They have to fulfill various responsibilities and have to fulfill the financial needs of the family which stresses their mind and body heavily.



The other reasons of boredom in marital life includes downfall of physical appearance and reducing desire of lovemaking. As the person grows older, his/her physical appearance experiences a downfall, because of which the other partner starts losing interest in his/her partner. The added financial responsibilities, business tensions and other tensions resist the person from lovemaking. After few years of marital life the person loses interest in making any physical contact, enjoying the marital life which ultimately leads to boredom.

To avoid this marital boredom you can take several steps. You should keep your body fit and should pay proper attention to physical and mental health so that the other partner does not lose interest in you. Avoid any frustrations and take all responsibilities as challenges of life so that you can get peace of mind. To recharge your life and reduce your mental stress you can even plan a second honeymoon so that you can renew your best days of marital life.





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