Loving Your Best Friend’s Sister
March 24, 2009
Since love is a many-splendored thing, everything seems beautiful and glowing. Love really transforms the mundane into the magical and gives wing to inspiration. When all’s fair in love and war, it is up to lovers to be able to convince their families that the decision that they are making is the right one and that they will stand up to challenges that might come their way.
There are definitely cases where a guy falls in love with his best friend’s sister and vice versa. So when a dicey situation like this happens, it is best to check out the article you are about to read to find out the correct angle to take when a triangle begins to form.
Does your best friend’s sister linger when you are around? Watch out for signs of flirting or making an excuse to hang out, especially when you are there. Or do you feel that it’s not a wise move and convince yourself that your friend’s sister is just being friendly and hospitable? One of the signs that you are in love is that you tend to misunderstand other people’s actions and reactions.
If you have fallen in love with your best friend’s sister, then you have to consider the fact that there will be risks that you might have to take. If your friend’s sister responds or makes a move, you will wonder whether you should or can still be friends with her brother.
You will also be apprehensive about whether after giving up your friendship your relationship with the sister would last or not and if this affair or relationship would be worth the risk.
If you feel attracted to the girl, meet her at a private place away from her home and ask her if she reciprocates your feelings. If you feel that she will not or if she is not interested, then do not ever mention this again to anybody. But if she does like you, then you would have to ask her how her brother would respond to this and work out a plan as to how to tackle the family regarding this new development.
Since it is also your duty to inform your friend, talk to him and watch for any signs of disapproval or acquiescence and give your friend time to absorb the fact that his little sister has grown up and is ready to make a life for herself. As a matter of duty and love, it is only fair that you divide your time between your friend and his sister.
Though each relationship is different, care must be given in detail to be able to manage both relationships well. Give yourself the pleasure of being in love and having two intimate relationships that you can nurture and treasure.






























