One sure shot way of messing up a long distance relationship is to approach it with your mind full of negativity. Sure there have been unaccounted records about long distance relationships that have failed the test of time. But for every such story there is also a story about a long distance relationship that has thrived and prospered with time.

There is no denying that fact that these relationships take more conscious efforts for both the involved parties than our average relationships. However taking care of a few basic factors can help you in going all the way with your long distance relationship.

Decide on the status of the relationship. If you are not open to exclusive commitment, then honestly, there is no point in pursuing the relationship. However if you are sure of the commitment, you are ready to take the plunge.

Decide on the amount of time that you have to spend apart. Be it 2 months or 2 years, setting the record straight at the very beginning is a must. Try not to jump this time by significant amounts. Waiting longer than the anticipated time can be devastating for both sides.

Communicate regularly. It is highly likely that the needs of one partner are much more than the needs of the other. Be accommodating. Reach a frequency you are both comfortable with. Use means like video chats apart from the usual phone calls to add intimacy to the conversations.

Plan regular visits, budget permitting of course. Nothing compares to the moment of reunion after a long absence. Plan something special for the time that you spend together. This will keep your longing alive in the long run. Memories of these stolen moments will strengthen your resolve to ultimately be together.

Trust each other implicitly. No relationship can survive the lack of trust, be it 2 miles distant, or 2000 miles. There is no need to be on tenterhooks just because your partner has not returned your call or gone out with his/her new friends. Be understanding of the fact that your partner is going to develop a new social circle, and that the people involved are not necessarily untrustworthy just because you do not know them.

Most importantly, do not forget your reason of being together. If your love is strong enough, it will triumph.