Inner Languages in Love
September 9, 2008
Inner language is a language of understanding and emotions. Several times people fail to connect with their spouse because they are unable to understand their spouse’s inner language. For example if a wife cook a delicious food for her husband and make a romantic arrangement at home for dinner, husband usually spoil her mood because of his busyness or official matter.
The whole effort of wife fails because her husband does not understand her inner language and emotions. So, it is important to learn inner language of your partner, so that you would not hurt him/her with your unintentional deeds. It may be possible that point of view of both the partners may be different. Therefore, people usually fail to understand the actual intention or emotion behind the particular act of their spouse.
No one is an expert to recognize Inner Language of other person. However, if someone have skills to recognize his/her partner activities and behavior at particular instant, then that person can understand what the reaction would be of his/her spouse in such situations.
In order to learn Inner Language, here is a brief description:
Actually, it is a subject of psychology. Generally, there are three type of inner languages studied by the psychiatrists and that are: Visual, Auditory and Feelings.
Visual Inner language: The persons who have visual inner language are usually very conscious in their looks. They always dress appropriately and in good manner for their daily task, even if they are doing household works or gardening. Just ask a question to them that requires some thoughtful answer and watch their action. Look up their eyes, you perceived that they think in a manner that they are visualizing their answer before answering your question. These type of people thinks a lot and are quite slow to express their emotions.
Auditory Inner Language:
People under this category are very talkative and they enjoy gossips. They can read your emotions and mood with your style and tone of voice. These types of people are noticing, inconsistencies, analytical and prefer to state things clearly instead of implying them. When you ask a question with these sorts of people, they think for a while and have quick glance from left to right. This means at this instance of time they get into a little conversation with themselves to frame their answer. They are the good companions and hence, can match better even than non-auditory persons.
Feeling Inner Language:
These types of people are mostly laid-back. They are unconcerned about looks, appearance, eating, love hugging and relaxing. Before responding any question, they first look down as if they are consulting that question with their gut feelings. These people are perfect match for all type of persons. However, they have low ranking on neatness scale because they are moody, sensitive, empathetic and nurturing.
So, with above briefing you can study the type of your partner and would understand his/her inner language better.
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