In The Mind Of A Man
June 14, 2008
What goes on in a man’s mind? That is a million dollar question that is often the subject of many an article in women journals and magazines. There’s a lot of woman talk bandied about how difficult it is gauge the mind of a man. But, despite what many women think, men are far less complicated creatures than women. Quite easy to understand, one only has to put a little effort into finding out what goes on in any normal man’s mind.
Basically, I think what most men want even when in a relationship is the same kind of freedom they had before they met you. They like to hang out with the guys, down a few beers, air some grouches and then head home for some tender loving care. Much as they like to show that they are taking care of their woman and their family, they will love you all the more for pulling out the stops and smothering them with a whole lot of pampering.
What they don’t like is mind controlling and manipulative games that women like to play. You’d be better off by laying it straight on the table than playing with his mind. You won’t achieve any thing, as the man in your life will only walk away or go all silent, hiding his feelings and blocking his emotions. No amount of emotional breakdowns or violent explosions will tell you what’s going on in a man’s mind.
If, you want to be happy in your relationship, if you want everything to go smoothly, then try and keep your man happy. Be honest, be considerate and you will find how easily he will reveal what goes on in a man’s mind. Treat him with respect, give him space, let him do guy things with the guys. Don’t try and become one of the guys. It isn’t what he wants. He likes you for being you and the guys for a boys’ night out on the town.
As long as you respect his space and give him freedom, he’ll feel good about being in a relationship with you. Begin to nag and cry and you’ll come up against a stonewall. He’ll block you out, won’t let you in the mind of a man. You may want spend every moment with him but he’ll only feel smothered if he can’t get out alone every now. If, you love him that much, then you must let him have time on his own or with the boys. A little understanding and soon you’ll be a whiz as to what goes on in the minds of men!
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