How to seduce a girl
May 19, 2008
Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, “how do they do it?” Yes, females are attracted to power and status. Yes, they are attracted to symmetrical features, strength and confidence. The art of distracting a woman from all of your shortcomings and making her fall in love with you for whom you are is called seduction. Read on to find out how to do it.
In order to know how to seduce a girl, it is important to learn that the seduction starts long before you get into bed together. It starts with your approach. Get rid of the corny lines and any false pretenses. Women aren’t stupid. (They’re actually smarter than us, guys) and they can smell a phony a mile away.
Simply make sure you’re well groomed and smell nice, then just talk to her naturally. Talk about her, not yourself. Remember, the key is making her feel special. And don’t try to hit a home run the first night. Make a date for another night.
If she likes you, you’ll know it. She may even give you her phone number without you asking for it. When you meet her for your date, bring a dozen red roses and take her to dinner at a nice restaurant, not your local burger joint. Also, be a gentleman. That means opening her car door, holding doors for her, pulling out her chair at the restaurant, taking her coat, etc.
During dinner, focus all of your attention on her. In order to know how to seduce a girl, it is important to learn that you need to look directly into her eyes while you’re talking to her. Do not, I repeat, do not look at any other women while you are with her. And whatever you do, do not touch her, unless she initiates contact first. During dinner, she will give you signals about whether or not you will have the honor of spending time with her intimately. You’re already half way home, because she liked you enough to go out with you in the first place.
And as long as you don’t do something ridiculous or embarrassing during dinner, you should make out just fine.
Basic Hygiene
In order to know how to seduce a girl, it is important to learn that it is not to look like Brad Pitt to seduce a woman. Just be yourself and most importantly, be well groomed. No woman would like her man to be unclean with shabby hair and dirty clothes. Take a shower, shave and apply some nice smelling cologne. Your attire need not be a business suit. Even a simple pair of clean jeans and a nice tee with a trendy belt and a classy watch can make a style statement.
Talk
Believe it or not, women love to engage in intellectual conversation. It is a big turn-on for a woman. So do not think she is some bimbo who cannot think. In order to know how to seduce a girl, it is important to learn that you should strike a conversation and you will be amazed by how much women know. Talking always breaks the ice and seduction becomes easier once the woman is comfortable. The best way to start a good conversation is by a genuine compliment.
Turn on the charm. She already said “yes.” As difficult as it is to blow it now, many guys do by being shy this is important step to learn about how to seduce a girl. If you don’t show that you’re attracted to her now, you will be seen as unappreciative or weak. Girls typically give about ten “nos” for every “yes,” so show (don’t tell) your appreciation for it. It’s OK to bend the truth. If she’s gorgeous, insinuate how clever and charming she is. If she’s not, insinuate that she is.
A great deal of the conversation will be non-verbal. Use ambiguous physical contact. Walk close enough to her that you brush against each other often, touch her lower back when you open the car door for her. If you are nervous when you touch a girl, it will make her very uncomfortable. Confidence is the difference between touching her and molesting her.



























