How To Make Your Relationship Last
November 14, 2008
“One’s first love is always perfect until one meets one’s second love,” Elizabeth Aston.
I will always love you, we often say. But why is it that our always and our forever last no longer than 6 months at the maximum. Why can’t we honour our promises? Are we inherently born this way?
Relationships are fragile: it is a meeting of two totally different personalities. It must be handled with extreme caution. Relationship is about giving but when it is all one-sided giving it quickly breaks down.
Some say communication is the most essential aspect of any relationships. So couples must work on developing the emotional aspect before any physical involvement occurs. Experts claim that the emotional, verbal, and psychological sides of the relationship are really more important than the physical or sexual aspects of the relationship.
Never compare your relationship with another. Each one is unique.
Work on it every single day! Try to enrich it at every level - emotional, verbal, psychological and physical. Reading internet articles, magazine articles, and books that give advices on relationships would help. However, remember relationships involve two people. Both parties have to chip in. It won’t work if you are the only one involved.
One important advice we often invariably don’t follow is: Do not become completely absorbed in the relationship. Both partners must have their own group of friends but make room for their partner at the same time. The key to a successful relationship is all about striking the right balance. Don’t cling and make your partner feel trapped.
Spend quality time together. Without it, your relationship will not survive. Make sure to spend at least half and hour together.
Encourage and appreciate each other. Show interest when your man talks to you. Men aren’t mentally programmed for conversation they need more silence and internal time.
Some have described love as a choice. True, at every point we have the choice to either continue or discard it. The choice is up to us!
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Well done. Very well done. I could not agree more