Who says love at first sight never happens? Sometimes things go along just like in the movies, you see him at a party and you start getting strange sensations in your stomach. Well, this could be a good sign, but a question appears: how do I approach him?
How, or what can I use to attract him? He could just be your coworker, or just someone from your school, neighborhood, whatever. If this is the case with you, than read on and find out some good ways to get him to come over to you. This guide will also prove useful if you already started dating him and you want to go further, playing with his mind.
Sadly, there is no guarantee of success. There are various things that can increase the chances for it to happen, though. It is very possible to make him fall in love with you, if you play the cards the right way. After all, every woman tries to be as attractive as possible, most of them have mastered this “art” and there is a good chance that you are one of them, so why should attracting your man be that hard when you use this “secret weapon”.
Women do this most of the time, another reason why it shouldn’t be very hard. An important thing for you to consider is to try to keep your expectations low. In case of a failure do not despair. Another important thing is to try not to aim too high.
Don’t go for the Brad Pitt type of approach – you work at the restaurant washing dishes, at a grocery store, and so on. The chances of failure drastically increase if this is the case. Make subtle advances to him, and observe his reactions. He could accept or reject them. If he rejects them, it is possible that he is in a relationship already or just does not want one at this point.
Another possible reason for him to reject your advances is because of his shyness, so maybe giving up is not always the best thing to do in these situations. Always keep in mind that to increase your chances, it is best to look very good and have a great conversation with him.