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Flirting with Ease

May 25, 2009

flirtingeaseIf you don’t know how to flirt, then it’s something you definitely need to learn how to do!  If you are single, flirting can be loads of fun.  And guess what?  It’s a no fat, zero calorie, tax-free way to have tons of fun.  All you need to do is learn how to be charming and carefree.  Below is some advice on flirting and how to become the belle of the ball.

Use flattery in a completely genuine way.  Comment on things you like about a person and because you feel it, it will be believable.  People can pick up on insincerity and you don’t want to make yourself seem like a suck up or a cheap floozy who comes on to everyone that passes their way.  Choose whom you praise and what you say wisely.

Take the time to find out personal facts about the person you like and ask unusual questions, something they may never have been asked before.  Be careful not to cross boundaries and become invasive.  The key is to let them know that you are genuinely interested in them.

Shake hands upon meeting in a manner that conveys confidence.  Outgoing people are always admired because they appear to be confident in their own abilities.  If you shake hands with someone you like, squeeze their hand lightly when shaking it.

Laugh at funny situations and comments but don’t go overboard.  Show that you have a good sense of humor.  You don’t want to appear too silly so react when you find something amusing but don’t try to blow it out of proportion.  Don’t be afraid to wear unusual items, such as eye-catching earrings or hair accessories.  They are great conversation-starters and might help others approach you.

Always look the other person directly in the eyes and don’t be shy.  It will come across as hesitation on your part, as if you aren’t sure whether you want to get to know the other person.

Flirt, but don’t cling to the other individual.  In fact, leave the person as soon as you are sure that you have their full attention.  This tactic leaves them wanting more of your time.  It is one of the best things you can do.

Don’t be too aggressive, but don’t be afraid to let your interest in the other person show.  Flirt boldly for a few minutes and then pull back.  It is a matter of teasing and building up anticipation.

Try to become knowledgeable.  If you are well read and can contribute to the conversation you will get much more attention.  Try to participate in intellectually stimulating conversations.  Show off your intelligence; if someone you like is looking at you, then look back.

So now that you know how to flirt, what are you waiting for?  There are plenty of people out there for you to meet.


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