Deal with Emotionally and Verbally Abusive Husband

Abusive Husband

Domestic violence in the form of verbal and emotional abuse can create chaos in your married life. If not dealt with at the right time, it can get aggravated and turn into physical violence. Women suffering from domestic violence at the hands of their husband feel utter sense of despair and embarrassment.

They develop a fear of their husband’s unpredictable mood and suffer from low self-esteem. Sometimes when the situation gets serious, a wife of an abusive husband may develop eating disorders and suffer from depression. This depression even forces the wife to contemplate suicide to put an end to the dreadful life. It is a challenging task to deal with abusive husband but it is inevitable to escape the pathetic situation.



Domestic violence is not restricted to physical abuse. Verbal and emotional abuse is very much a part of domestic violence. Humiliation, threatening, belittling, isolation, misuse of power, unnecessary domination and convulsive lying are some of the behavior patterns of an abusive husband. An abusive husband may also try to harm the children or the pet in order to hurt the wife. A wife should first recognize the abuse and not run away from it for the fear of humiliation.

It is natural for a women suffering from verbal abuse to feel conflicting emotions. A woman may not be able to accept that she is being maltreated and stay quiet for the sake of good times. An abusive husband may try to blame the wife for all the problems. Thai can lead to development of conflicting feelings in the woman.



If a woman is in an abusive relationship, she has to understand and know her options. If she decides to stay, then she must consult professional counselors for help. If she decides to leave, she can take the help of family and friends. Firstly, she needs to accept the problems and be willing to seek help for it.

Emotional and verbal abuse can affect the physical and mental well-being of such women. Studies show that such women often develop reproductive ailments, emotional disorders, eating disorders, reduced immunity, etc. Depression and addiction to alcohol are some of the consequences of persistent abuse. It is important to take care of yourself and consult a doctor if any of the problems develop.

Moreover it is important to have a backup plan in terms of some financial security. If you have set aside some savings, they can prove helpful in light of some contingency if the problem accentuates. It is advisable to feed helpline numbers in your cell phone and keep a survival kit consisting of money, important documents, etc .with you at all times.





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