Cybersex – killing your loneliness or you?
June 3, 2008
Cyber sex is a form of outercourse. It involves sharing erotic fantasies with a partner in a private chat room on the Internet. Some people may masturbate (touch their own sex organs for pleasure) while they participate in cyber sex. When it comes to cyber sex, you may want to invest in a microphone, at the very least. That way, the woman you’re getting it on with can hear your excitement and know that she’s turning you on. As well, there’s nothing more difficult than being incredibly excited and having to type with one hand.
Outercourse is sex play that doesn’t include vaginal intercourse. It can include massage, body rubbing, and using sex toys. It’s nearly 100 percent effective against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections, as long as no body fluids are exchanged. It’s true that cybersex is not for everybody, and it can be emotionally dangerous even if you’re not in a committed offline relationship and risking infidelity. Some cyber partners even end up leaving the virtual space to get married. But it still irks anyone that such a shock while explaining that having sex online does not mean it’s your last resort.
It could just mean you’d rather engage and relate than zombie-out in front of the television. What people don’t realize is that it’s hard to find good sex online if you’re a woman, and hard to find sex at all if you’re a man. You can’t just log into a webcam community and get laid, any more than you can join an online role-playing game and hook up without making any further effort.
Well, one can ask question to oneself to know whether he or she is addicted to cybersex or not. Questions such as do you routinely spend time in sex chat rooms and instant messaging with the sole purpose of finding cybersex or you feel preoccupied with using the Internet for cybersex, can help you decide the same. Also, do you frequently use anonymous communication to engage in sexual fantasies not typically carried out in real-life and do you anticipate your next online session with the expectation that you will find sexual arousal or gratification also help determining.
Do you move from cybersex to phone sex or even real-life meetings or you hide your online interactions from your significant other, you feel guilt or shame from your online use etc. questions can also help deciding your addiction to the cybersex.
Cybersex is okay and even good if you control yourself doing wrong things such as wasting money or giving up your responsibilities. But soon, it turns evil if you dedicate yourself! “Nothing wrong watching porn sites, provided, it should be timely bound! An hour a day or so with no physical, mental and social harm is quite considerable,” says many porn watchers who are still healthy; by mind and also by physique!
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