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How to play the attraction game at the first sight

27 December, 2008, Love,Relationships - No Comment

Numerous hearts claim to be stuck by cupid as soon as the looks are exchanged. ‘It just clicked and love flashed in the air,’ ‘…at the first glance, I said to myself – God! She is the one I have been waiting for.’
Well! Lets find out what’s love at first sight. Per psychologists love at first sight is nothing but a state of mind. It mainly depends on our psychological state at that spurt of moment. You may have seen him/her a couple of times before but didn’t pay heed to those sparkling eyes, however, at that special moment they mean the world to you.

“The role of destiny cannot be ignored,” believes a teenager, Charlie Mathew. Adding that you meet someone special when you are destined to. “30 seconds theory of falling in love sounds amazing, I am waiting for that moment,” chortles Pam D’souza, a 23-year-old software engineer.

However, according to experts the trap of the love at first sight is the major work of our intuition, reflexes, instinct, ideals and, above all, our imagination. Quoting, “One falls in love when one is willing to experience this rib-tickling emotion. Other person’s physical appearance besides the gesture, voice and odour act as the major deciding factors.”
Per some theories, we fall in love not at the first sight but at the first odour of a person. That may sound a little weird but scientists too claim that humans pay more attention to what their ears and eyes notice and report to the subconscious. Thus, to cast that spell, smell right!
And if you have fallen for someone already, before you confess the love at first sight, get back to reality. You may initiate a friendship and know a little more than the enchanting looks. Patience pays in the long run. Bargain time to know more about your spell bounding interest. After all it’s an important step in life.

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