Dealing with difficult people is never easy with your heart but a tactful mind.
Before you go on with the shortcuts to deal with such kind of people, it is better to register in your mind that it is quite human to have negative ego and feelings with the people around where one is not able to drive in enough of positive energy to fight against it.
Do not worry at all. Just give a break and be thoughtful over the following tips. You will soon be free from the negative signals delivered from difficult people around you.
• Stay positive: Well, the first and initial move to deal with difficult people is not to take any move! Let the other person show whatever negativities he or she would like to. But if you give him a pleasant expression simply ignoring his negative signals, it can naturally bring in some amendments.
• Forgive and forget: If you are facing this problem with someone very close and you just can’t throw him off from your life, then just forgive and forget the negative situation that you had to face from him.
• Don’t react: The best and easiest method to deal with difficult people is by keeping your mouth shut even if you have the killing temptation to react. When you are facing with difficult attitude, you must understand that they show their negativity in order to elicit a response from you.
If you respond, mind you, you are entertaining as well as encouraging them to continue being difficult. So, it is ‘the best’ to keep mum.
• Stay away from heated talk or arguments: When you know that the other person has negative attitude and is not so easy to be dealt with, remember ‘Prevention is better than cure’.
Do not get involved in unnecessary arguments where you find no closest point to end. Such difficult personalities would always be stubborn on their thoughts and ideas. If you want to prove your side, better let them win if that gives them happiness. That shows your wisdom!