Every marriage would find a common dilemma of enthusiasm waning as years passes by. The responsibility of marriage life would be destroying the emotional attachment and intimacy. One way to bring back spark in relationship is to step out of routine sex life and love your husband.
Fantasy role playing is a method to improve intimacy in marriage. Couples can use their creativity when trying fantasy role playing and can be done at any time and at any place. Fantasy role playing is a concept that would mean to take a role other than what you are as a wife. This article focuses on tips for making love with your husband with fantasy role playing.
The process of communication for fantasy role playing and loving your husband
Proper sexual communication is a must for fantasy role playing to take place. As a wife you should take the initiative of discussing concept of erotic role play and should decide whether it suits husband’s personality and married life. If your husband does not feel comfortable in doing fantasy role playing it is better to step back from that idea.
Fantasy role playing would be taking a deep view into private sexual fantasies of couples and some couples would feel embarrassed by that thought. People in long term relationship would not be feeling vulnerable about role playing and they would be open to this form of communication.
You should read aloud a portion of book in which there is scope for fantasy role playing, and ask your husband to enact it for you. He would be surprised by this remark but you should encourage your husband to do it and that will also show your love to your husband. You should watch romantic movies with your husband and ask his opinion about a romantic scene. You should ask his opinion of enacting that scene in bed and try doing it.
How to love your husband with fantasy role playing
The concept of fantasy role playing should come in a spontaneous manner. You should be trying to talk dirty in bed and see the reaction of husband. Fantasy role playing is not limited to dirty talking only but would also require couples to be orally active about sex.
You can take the role of a doctor and ask your husband to take the role of patient. The doctor can say that she had found a new way of treating disease and that is called love method and can also say that the new method of treatment would be demonstrated in a short while. That would raise the level of expectation and a practical demonstration of creative fantasy role playing would do wonders to married life. Fantasy role playing can be simple sexy scenarios like seducing after office hours and visiting a doctor and having sex with her and so on.
Fantasy role playing can be taken to another level by wife to show her love to her husband. Assume that male partner would like to be arrested by a sexy female officer and this fantasy role playing can be done in another creative manners like a male person trying to woo romantically a female police officer. All these methods are meant to show your love to your husband and strengthen emotional bonding in relationship.
Fantasy role playing tips to love your husband
Both husband and wife should agree to a scenario for fantasy role playing which they think is arousing both physically and mentally. The fantasy role playing can be created with only one partner behaving in a different manner than normal. Even introducing blindfold, wearing high heels, wearing business suits can be considered as fantasy role playing.
Couples can pretend that they are strangers and having met at a bar and can try some creative ideas to woo your husband and take him to bed. This fantasy role playing would be done in such a way that you would be assertive and your husband would be submissive.
Fantasy role playing would be centered on the outfits and couples should be deciding clearly what outfits they should wear. If the fantasy role playing is centered on teacher student relationship, couples can select who is teacher and who is student first and then select the outfits that they are supposed to wear.
Fantasy role playing would be based on the theory of dominant and submissive and couples should decide clearly who should be dominant and who should be submissive. It all depends who would get turned on by the concept of power play and who would like to get punished. There is no hard and fast rule that fantasy role playing should be done in correct outfits but if you feel that outfits do add to the spiciness then you should give it a try.
Advantages of fantasy role playing in loving your husband and strengthening marriage
Fantasy role playing would prevent cheating in marriage as partners can explore their fantasies and feel satisfied. It is a better method to have a strong relationship than threesome. The communication and creative side of marriage would be working well and that would help to strengthen the bond and would go a long way in preventing divorce and would also help you to love your husband more.
Fantasy role playing would be also beneficial for partners who would be tempted to spend more time in front of computer. Sexual relations would be enriched with fantasy role playing and the couples would feel that they have got a new life. Fantasy role playing will also work wonders even after having child and would also make your husband feel excited as you would be showing more love to your husband.
The confidence and trust in marriage would be strengthened with fantasy role playing. This act would also help to bring back the fun element back in your marriage and would also help couples to step outside routine. In short it would bring back the giggles that they had forgotten. If you are looking for ways to strengthen marriage with pleasure, you need not look beyond fantasy role playing.
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