God could not be everywhere and therefore He made Mothers. However, even this God made creation has some feelings and emotions that she wants to share with her near and dear ones. And who could be a better person than a daughter. When daughters are old enough and mature then the two become more of friends than mother and a daughter.
The daughters represent their mother’s character. They can laugh, cry, talk, and walk, etc like their Mothers. In fact, daughters are the mirror image of their mothers. Similarly, mothers derive a kind of satisfaction watching their daughters. Daughters give their moms a feeling of responsibility, a feeling of bonding, a feeling of belongingness, and above all a feeling of liveliness. Somewhere mother tries to relive the moments she had left far behind, only through her daughter. This feeling leads to a stronger Mother-Daughter relationship.
Mothers have their own way of influencing their daughters. Daughters, when they grow big, are the mirror image of their Mothers, in rearing up their children thus deriving a sense of great fulfillment.
The best gift a mother can give to her daughter and a daughter can give to her mother, as she grows up is the permission to be herself. One of the best Mother-Daughter relationships is created when a mother helps her daughter reach adolescence with least difficulty. However, this is possible only when a mother herself knows about her inner-self and her daughter depends on her Mother’s advice.
On this Mother’s Day, go out to enliven the bond with each other by reliving the mother daughter relationship. Discuss the smallest detail with each other and no pinpointing-just plain revelations. This honest confession will lead to a better understanding of each other’s reactions. Don’t hesitate, just feel free.
On the mother’s part, she has always been over-protective and over-indulging, while on daughter’s part; she would have unnecessarily felt trapped up.
So neither the mother should nag a lot, nor does the daughter tell those white lies. Give each other time and space and see your Mother Daughter Relationship blossom with time.